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It’s about leverage.

I push my clients past just achieving goals, building skills and deepening core competencies. I believe we can live better lives than the ones we’ve settled for, break out of the boxes others have put us in, and push through the limiting beliefs of our own minds.

I believe because I’ve done it.

I emerged from a high-conflict and costly divorce and turned my loss into leverage. I ripped off the shirt of shame, activated my potential, and rebuilt my life. Through trial and triumph, I went from wrecked to redeemed.

I’m thankful I was broken; through the pain I learned the power of resilience, and discovered my passion for creating resilience in others.

After I rebuilt myself, I discovered a passion for using my story to bring perspective, healing, and freedom to those who are damaged from their past and stuck in stagnant mindsets.

We are all learning how to be brave and vulnerable despite the wounds that have made us.

We are all just becoming.

And none of us have to live broken or be limited to the blueprint we once used to build our life.

Let’s scrap it. Lets rebuild, reinvent, and reemerge. 

I’m not one to sugarcoat. I refuse to let your fears hold you back. I have a very fine-tuned BS meter and I’ll tell you how it is (I didn’t get my reputation as a Bulllshit Slayer for nothing!). I can help you explode your business but NOT at the expense of your family or your mental health. 

I’ve personally had that “hanging on the edge of a cliff” in both business and personally so I know from firsthand experience what NOT to do and have spent tens of thousands of dollars on courses, coaches, masterminds and the like and while some of it made a profound impact on my business and personal life, some simply didn’t. So I’ve combined the best of every course and metabolized it and created a unique methodology so you won’t fall into intense overwhelm and stay stuck in survival mode.

I say what no one else in your world is brave and bold enough to say. And I do that from a place of love, authenticity and vulnerability. Sometimes my clients love me (and sometimes hate me…but only for a minute) but they always know that I’m FOR them.

Together, we will work to create the life and business you always dreamed of having.

Purpose, intention, courage and vulnerability.

H Porta creates breakthrough for her clients—she won’t allow them to play small because of limiting beliefs. Hilary ensures that they personally, their business, their marriage, their relationship with their children or family can be restored, amplified and 10X’d.

Hilary is an “in-the-foxhole” Coach who uses her Jedi-level superpowers and healthy kick-in-the-butt accountability to help clients gain clarity, teaches them how to change their narratives, Flip-the-Script, recalibrate and reconstruct so they can they quickly learn how to pivot and press on boldly and confidently. It’s about MINDSET, INFLUENCE, and MASTERY. HARNESSING POTENTIAL. EVOLVING. It takes proven techniques & powerful strategy.

I came to Hilary during a period of career transition looking for guidance and strategy in developing my next chapter. What I didn’t expect was for her to open my life to a whole new level of understanding both personally and professionally. The knowledge and insight I have gained has profoundly changed how I show up in all situations especially with regards to my family. This has allowed us to connect on a much deeper level improving both our relationships and how we interact with each other. I have a renewed sense of strength and direction. I’ve highly recommended Hilary to colleagues and friends as she’s been instrumental in transforming my life. Thank you for all that you do!

– M. Edward Telfer

When I say that Hilary saved my company and my personal life, that’s not an exaggeration. Thru her coaching, I was able to stop the bleeding, get the right people in the right seats, create a culture which fosters trust, respect and innovation as well as save my marriage and develop a meaningful and intentional relationship with my sons.

– Jim P. CEO

As backstory, his company (Fortune 500) was literally imploding from a whole host of reasons from a lack of emotional intelligence and having the wrong people in the wrong seats from a leadership perspective. On top of that, as very typical in positions such as his, his marriage was hanging by a thread because he was a workaholic. He was driven, a visionary. He had virtually no relationship with his sons except to bankroll. Both personally and professionally he was coming apart at the seams. A previous client recommended me and he laid his pride down, rolled up his sleeves and did the hard work. Fast forward, I helped him recalibrate, harmonize his organization, got the right people in leadership to help drive his vision, he and his wife are actually stronger than when they first got married and he’s developing real relationship with his sons. He’s a real hero and felt so honored to walk in that sacred space with him. I share this with you so that you can see that it goes beyond just Coaching… I truly architect.

Disclaimer: H. Porta only accepts a limited number of clients who are ready and committed to taking action to architect a successful life both on the professional and personal front.

You must be ready to roll up your sleeves and pull back the curtain, but the results are so worth it you’ll wonder why you didn’t do it sooner!

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